|By Mike Evans
Beauty seems external but true beauty comes from the inside. If you want to be sexy for the holidays do whatever you like to feel sexy and others will pick up on it. Beauty is about confidence, your ambience.
Glamour is as much about how you act as how you look. How you carry off the look you are presenting is the essence of glamour. Grace, charm and presence are all the ingredients of a glamorous woman. Confidence is the most attractive feature in a woman. When you are confident, people will naturally be attracted to you. Stand straight up, walk up to that guy and say, Hi. Be natural. Just start talking. Small talk is okay, as long as it doesnt linger too long. Paraphrasing Jacques Chirac on Marlene Dietrich, her confidence is the essence of cinema. It was Marlenes confidence that came through and attracted people to her.
Do whatever you have to do to feel sexy. Take a shower with candles and incense. Take a long, warm bath sprinkled with rosewater. Wear beautiful lingerie even though no one will know what you have on underneath. You will know you are sexy and this will come through to others.
Have different looks. Many women find one look they think looks good and they stick with it exclusively to the point of wearing it out. Subtle highlights, lightened or darkened slightly so again it adds to your look but is not overtly obvious or overpowering. Experiment. Try a 1930s look with a close-cropped hat, or a sharp 50s look. Ask your friends what they think looks good on you. Nothing will get you great positive attention quicker than a hot, new, totally different look.
Gloves, especially long gloves with a sleeveless dress are a necessity to holiday glamour and sexiness. Also, try glitter, but use very sparingly on the face or shoulders. The key here is understatement. Make it so he has to really look to see the glitter so that maybe he isnt sure if you even have it on. Try gold or silver for the holidays.
Try this one. For a night in, before he arrives, stain your nipples with blackberry or cherry juice to give them a darker color. Take the fruit, bite into it and rub the juices around your nipple. This was done in France in the last century with rouge but doesnt taste nearly as good. If you are really daring, get a tattoo or piercing where only he will see it. Tell him you did it for him, even if its not true. Or, get a temporary tattoo in his name. Make him think its real. This should shake him up.
Especially for the holidays, Santa hats are always cute when worn for a short period of time. They look best with nothing else on. Paint your nails and toenails to match. Maybe all red with the little toe painted Christmas green.
No matter how hot you are you can always be hotter! Ask, try different things, be confident and those around you will sense it and know you are sexy.
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